Another side of being a human, being occasionally bored and sick


There are sometimes in our lives whereby a once strong and vibrant person tends to be somewhat different from his real self due to some situations both known and unknown to others. Yes, no matter how strong we are or used to be, there occurs a period when we occasionally turns differently from our original self, a time when a once strong and highly motivated individual suffers momentarily so to say.


 While it is true for us all as humans to be down with various types of illness sometimes in our lives leading  to being different from our usual/real selves, that awkward periods when we usually become down, not with any known illness per say but for entirely some unexplainable reasons.

At such moments in our lives, we are often given to so many feelings of inadequacies and some self doubts for various reasons which may even prove strange to the individual himself at the particular odd moments in life his life. In a state like that, the often best best preference for the person is to be left alone for himself which may not be the best.  At times like that, we are usually filled not with any food in our stomachs, but with our whole lots in life and justly so.

 For the clinically bored individuals the comprehensive but helpful analysis found here...health24 would definitely  be of some great assistance. So do well to take advantage of it if it's applicable in your case.

But for  those who are occasionally bored due to some difficult situations or lack of resources to do whatever they passionately want  to do  in life, such feelings could lead to suicidal thoughts if not properly managed.

Writing extensively on this topic of being bored can really take whole lot of time and yet what to write about it would still stretch to an eternity from various resources offering their own definitions and remedies.


Many things could be responsible for this sad state of mind, such as: being in a wrong type of employment that does nothing really meaningful to fill the necessary gaps of one's financial needs of which the person don't seem to have a way out, lingering sickness on the part of the individual or a relative, being laid out off from work, disappointments from promising ventures and other things related to what matters to the person's overall dignity as an individual.

When a person is suffering from boredom, the ability to regain focus in what previously interested him would be highly limited and at such period in life, recommending some needed help can be invaluable to get the individual back to normal and thereafter providing the needed help for the person to avoid a relapse.

 In providing the needed assistance, knowing what caused the initial problem could help in addressing whatever that may be accordingly.

In some other ways round, being occasionally bored may perhaps not be all that bad in itself per say.... what is meant by this is this, If a person sometimes appears to be bored for reasons best known to him and of which every other persons don't really or has not really been able to get to the root causes because to them the individual behaviour is strange; even though he doesn't display any threats of being incomplete upstairs, their overall conclusions could always be sounding unanimously  this way;  'Leave that person alone because he alone knows what his problems are'.

  And rightly so, he alone knows what his problem are, but strange enough though, this same individual (now standing accused by his colleagues)  may  have tried his best to convince his workmates or family members etc, but they may not just seem to understand his reasons for taking a rather different approach to things, after all, they are all doing well enough not to be thinking like that in the first place. They may reason!

What do you gather from that? That some times, it could be due to some burning desires to do things differently due to a person's foresights but others may not seem to get convinced enough with him to warrant them towing his line of his reasoning and so when this continues for a long time, such ones may prefer to be left alone with his thoughts and perhaps busy mapping out his strategies with some outside supporters, and whenever this becomes the case, such persons are usually  termed bored fellows  needing psychiatric help by those in opposition, but unknown to them, the route such ones are taking are often  just the best option to actualizing their peculiar  dreams which is different from theirs.

Never say die! is often a nickname given to such individuals due to their tenacious lifestyle. But we all knew that such names are always meant to manipulate someone  when he is working and not when he is sleeping. overlook it.

We are all  bored at different times and seasons in our various but trialsome lives as humans. This may at times be bad due to some bad things happening around us, at other times too it could be bad but not necessarily bad if properly analysed and looked into.

 We could channel the cause of the boredom to self discoveries and come up with something meaningful instead of living at the mercies of unwanted and unexpected happenings around us.

Maybe looking at things some other ways could be of some needed help too.

 Sickness generally is often believed to be a bad thing to humans, but come to think of it this way, if not for some types of sicknesses, would you have matured to this extent as a person? Without digging deep into the benefits which has been overwhelmed by the general mistaken view of it, our growth as fetus right from our mother's wombs has all been characterized by numerous types of illnesses most of which has been properly managed leading us to what we are today as responsible humans.

So it goes, boredom like every other down times in normal humans, are not necessarily bad on its own per say, but how it is managed and what we learned while managing and recovering from it at the same time.

 It gives us ample opportunity to reassess our general self and gets going in life. We may be injured either accidentally or through some various forms of discipline for not doing some things rightly which definitely results in any corresponding sickness, while recuperating, we are often in a better positions to get so many parts of the body fixed up right and come out of the sick bed a better and changed person.

   Boredom, that particular times that things appears to be highly and tentatively uninteresting, could just be an opportunity to look at things with a different perspective and get the uninteresting sides out of it. in all, how we manage it go a long way to give us better results. Do not give in easily to despair of various types in life irrespective of where it might be coming from, work at it with all you have, after all not all who fall sick die as the result. You can recover and become more sound in health if you put the needed effort.

  Don't just get bored for nothing and allow it have you remain bored. Bore it out and get some positives out of it.

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